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gilagirl
Date: 2009-12-24 18:42
Subject: For The Perfect Cuppa & Grub in London
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Tags:food, travel

I raved about this perfect caffeine stop and food market in my previous London trip in Borough Market 2008.

I should know.

We travelled outwith London where we tasted coffee that should not be served.

A pregnant woman should not waste her quota of one previous cup on bad coffee. And with Monmouth, I didn't get the bloated acidic upset in my tummy that I got with other coffee. That's how I know it is good.


It was a Saturday morning and a queue was snaking around the shop with people waiting for their shot. Bernard knew the perfect way to beat the system: buy take-away beans and order coffee to go at the same time. The queue was WAY shorter. Bless him!

David Lim, the actor in Growing Up, can be seen behind the counter.

The Borough Market sure is crowded on a Saturday. If you don't mind braving the crowds (& cold) for great cheap food, the market is a feast for the eye as well.

I got an Ultimate burger at the burger stand with bacon, onions, sauce and leaves in it. I think it was the best 5 pounds that I spent.

Yes it was THAT good.

Some random shots at the market:


Here's a funny one with the 3 of them looking in different directions


Discerning coffee drinkers will also tell you about this other gem, Älgerian Coffee Stores Ltd. If you're a black, drip coffee or expresso drinker, you'll love the coffee served here. I happen to like my coffee with milk which sadly doesn't deliver the punch at this joint. Tea drinkers, fret not - they have a fair selection as well.



When you step in, it feels like a curio-retail-medical hall rolled in one. People queue up, get their fix and out they go: reminds me of an Italian bar.

The sign says it all

Älgerian Coffee Stores Ltd.
Opening Hours:
Monday - Wednesday: 9 a.m to 7 p.m
Thursday and Friday: 9 a.m to 9 p.m
Saturday: 9 a.m to 8 p.m
52 Old Compton Street
London, W1D 4PB, United Kingdom
Website: http://www.algcoffee.co.uk

Borough Market
Opening Times:
Thursdays: 11am - 5pm
Fridays: 12pm - 6pm
Saturdays: 8am - 5pm
Website: http://www.boroughmarket.org.uk

Monmouth Coffee
1. Covent Garden, 27 Monmouth Street, London WC2H 9EU
Monday-Saturday 8am–6.30pm (closed Bank Holidays)
2. The Borough, 2 Park Street, London SE1 9AB,
Monday-Saturday, 7.30am–6pm (closed Bank Holidays)
Website: http://www.monmouthcoffee.co.uk

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gilagirl
Date: 2009-12-23 22:16
Subject: Griffin & Phoenix
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Mood:grateful grateful
Tags:festives, reel life



It was a Friday night. I wanted watch something easy, light, something about love.

I picked this title ços it starred 2 of my fave actors. Oooh, Dermot Mulroney sure did age like a fine wine - love that salt & pepper look. I'd been looking out for his movies since "My Best Friend's Wedding".

OMG, first 5 minutes into the show and I knew it was not the movie I made it out to be.

**Spoiler ahead**
It's a story about how Griffin meets and falls in love with Phoenix, unknown to each of them that the other is terminally ill.

There were some heart breaking scenes like how Griffin makes Phoenix promise him that she will not look for him or visit him in the hospital if his condition worsens.

Or that Phoenix realises she didn't take note of the last time she held a pencil or the last time she played a piano...but that changed when she met him.

The late nights at work has been draining me since we got back from London. Even when I sleep, the subconcious mind thinks about work. The happiest thing about leaving the office is seeing & being with Wei and sharing with him the happenings during the day. Most times, I am guilty of being with him yet miles away.

This movie knocked some sense into me. How could I have let the time and opporunities slip by when I should be soaked myself into Wei's world? There could be people fighting to spend one second more with their loved ones and I am squandering it away, allowing work to define my life.

Not that won't do.

Thank God I have a few more days to enjoy, celebrate and soak up the rest of festive atmosphere. It would've been a shame to let it slip by.

I left the pile of mess on my table during lunch & went Christmas shopping today for the first time this year.

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gilagirl
Date: 2009-12-23 20:39
Subject: Mamarazzi: 26 weeks on
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Tags:bud

Bud's movements are going fast and furious now. I am startled sometimes at the strength of his kicks. Just the other night, he was actively treating this mummy as a punching bag and I took Wei's hand to my belly.

Could have sworn Wei's palm bounced off my bump, partly in shock.

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gilagirl
Date: 2009-12-18 00:00
Subject: So Long Aunty Chin
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Mood:melancholy melancholy
Tags:family, musings

We laid A Chin to rest last Saturday.



Leading to the final days, I still imagined a gentle lady sitting slouched in her seat with a smile on her face - like the many times I found her.

If you’ve attended a cremation before, you'll know the following to be true: that the last (solitary) journey of the coffin to the furnace is the loneliest and most heart-wrenching, at least for me. It always gets to me.

A Chin always had someone help her with things; I remember hearing that she didn't have to work most of her adult life. I wonder if she’ll be lost in the in-between worlds. Or would Uncle Leong be waiting?

As we bade her good-bye, I hugged my swollen belly tighter.

The circle of life. Isn't that grand?

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gilagirl
Date: 2009-12-07 22:29
Subject: A Short Message From Wei
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Mood:calm calm
Tags:love

"A long time past since last
A poem small but with big love
A little present we shall have
A lotta love he will need
Be There Always
Now and forever more"

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gilagirl
Date: 2009-11-30 23:58
Subject: No Groundhog Day Pls
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Mood:drained drained
Tags:work

All it took was Wei to ask me, "What time are you going to finish?" for the floodgates to open.

I was pulled in so many directions today in a minefield and there seemed no end.

Sorry Bud, Mummy just had to get it off her chest. Hope I didn't cause you undue stress in there.

When I got through our front door at 1030pm, I didn't remember about the melt down or the pile of work-- - but that I was safe at home...at last.

And a new day begins tomorrow.

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gilagirl
Date: 2009-11-29 00:18
Subject: Fifth Month Symptoms
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Mood:uncomfortable uncomfortable
Tags:bud, effects

"Here's what you may experience this month"
From What To Expect When You Are Expecting

More energy (ditto)

Fetal Movement (stronger now than at 10w)

Increasing vaginal discharge (hell yes)

Achiness in the lower abdomen & along the sides (thank goodness no - not yet)

Constipation (hell yeah)

Heartburn, indigestion, flatulence, bloating (not really)

Occasional headaches, faintness and dizziness (yes just last week)

Backache (thank goodness no - not yet)

Nasal congestion and occasional nosebleeds, ear stuffiness (thank goodness no)

Sensitive gums that may bleed when you brush (thank goodness no)

Heart appetite (never changed!)

Leg cramps (yes 3 weeks ago)

Mild swelling of ankles and feet and occasionally hands and face (yikes)

Varicose veins of legs &/ or hemorrhoids (yikes)

Skin color changes on abdomen &/ or face (yikes)

A protruding navel (mega yikes)

Faster pulse (nope)

Easier or more difficult orgasm (yikes)

So looking forward to 6 months and beyond .

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gilagirl
Date: 2009-11-29 00:00
Subject: What's In The Eye
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Mood:surprised surprised
Tags:loved

He doesn't see them.

I spent an hour dolling up and he didn't notice anything.

The silver bells were draped across and above the blooming tv, the red ribbons were cinched on lace across the main door together with the big holly and 2 angels and he wonders why there is a pair of incredulous eyes looking back at him when he is asked if he noticed anything different.

I am amazed.

Let's see how long he takes.

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gilagirl
Date: 2009-11-23 23:16
Subject: Glam Cam: Deep V Bubble
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Mood:enthralled enthralled
Tags:fashion

It was an outfit that worked (for me). Surprising since the brain was just preferring to be stuck in the Monday blues and refusing to work.

The teal dress material was deemed too thick and stiff but it was perfect for today's weather and the 'rough' work that laid ahead in the office.




Dress: Courtesy of MamaPumpkin
Camisole: Uniqlo heat tech
Leggings: Topshop Maternity


I am beginning to enjoy my 'new' wardrobe.

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gilagirl
Date: 2009-11-21 23:32
Subject: A Peek Out
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Mood:mischievous mischievous
Tags:off the cuff

Have you guys ever looked outside of your window and observed your surroundings?

Just today I saw a beautiful coloured blue bird taking flight from a tree.

Another sighting was slightly more interesting or disturbing.

I saw what was hanging outside my neighbour's window.



A sheer grey netted boxers with raw edges. Rrrrrrrr.....

Fancy some wind beneath your things, guys?

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gilagirl
Date: 2009-11-18 22:51
Subject: Glam Cam: Mod Smock
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Mood:creative creative
Tags:fashion

I thought this will be way too small for me...but I was kindda running out of outfits to wear for work. Luckily, it was not indecently short and I liked the fact that this didn't require ironing and didn't cling on to my expanding frame.

I reckon I could wear it a couple more weeks before I look like a "bak-zang".



Mod-Smock: On loan from MamaPumpkin
Cream lycra LS: Mango

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gilagirl
Date: 2009-11-16 22:26
Subject: Comforting Words
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Mood:cranky cranky
Tags:love

I was lamenting to Wei that I have outgrown most of my boy shorts.

I asked him he's got some shorts to spare for home.

"Well you can't wear most of them.....oh wait, I have one that's really big. Yeah, that one is b i g."

It comes as no surprise that when you are pregnant, bodily processes tend to go slower. Digestion, adrenaline, bowel movements. Yes, very sexy indeed.

I sent a loving sms to Wei from the private confines of the cubicle.

"Getting ready for a long session in the toilet," I reported.

"Will ask PUB to get ready," came back his equally loving response.

Such kind comforting words from the near & dear.

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gilagirl
Date: 2009-11-10 23:12
Subject: Mamarazzi: 21 weeks on
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Mood:bouncy bouncy
Tags:bud



All of a sudden from 20 weeks, out popped the bump from oblivion to conspicuity.

The skin feels stretched, like I've had one buffet spreads too many.

The reactions frm around ranged: "Thank goodness the bump is showing" from a concerned nosey relative to a kind gentleman who gave his seat up for me on the train today.

How, in the world, am I going to grow for the next 20 weeks is beyond me.

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gilagirl
Date: 2009-11-03 23:40
Subject: Rat Under Rug
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Mood:chipper chipper
Tags:bud

I was watching Enchanted on the telly last night when Bud was moving quite a bit.

Then it stopped and started again.

I lifted my tee, massaged the bump and cajoled it to start again and then started at the very same spot.

By golly, I saw my tummy twitch.

It looked like a rat moving under a rug (sorry Bud) but it was bloody amazing.

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gilagirl
Date: 2009-11-03 23:20
Subject: Bedtime Story
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Mood:cheerful cheerful
Tags:bud

I know it sounds silly - I just don't have the habit of talking to someone who's not exactly 'around' but I read Bud a bedtime story last night: The Tale of Peter Rabbit from Beatrix Potter. No better children's book to buy from London than one from their very own, isn't it?

I felt a little strange initialy but I used to like to read infront of an audience and luckily my one audience didn't have anywhere to run to...heheheh.

Soon after, Wei checked if I was asleep yet and promptly took out his Top Gear magazine and starting reading an article ALOUD.

Bud, your daddy cracks me up sometimes.

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gilagirl
Date: 2009-11-03 23:14
Subject: Jet-Lagged But Still Going
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Mood:awake awake
Tags:travel

Hey peeps, the 3 of us have returned from London and will be showing you some shots pretty soon. Stay tuned.


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gilagirl
Date: 2009-10-17 09:15
Subject: The Big One Before The B@mb
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Mood:cheerful cheerful
Tags:bud, travel

Dear Bud

Mummy hasn't been in a good place lately. Lots have been happening at work and she's been facing a couple of challenges. She's moody most of the time and she's frustrated with so many things.

She fears she might have passed on the angst over to you and you'll come out angry with the world, dark and intense.

Through no credit to her, one door closes and another opens; things at work will soon work itself out.

She was looking so forward to her big trip out with you & Daddy to London. When the jumbo flight took off on the runway, she was smiling with tears in her eyes - like her burden has taken flight as well. For some strange reason, she seemed to have been relieved of something. I think most definitely, she is grateful to be able to rejuvenate and recharge herself in a beautiful cold country far away.

This is also one important time that Mummy and Daddy will bond with another before you come along - no offense to you - and she'll treasure every moment.

It's not a habit of Mummy to talk to you audibly, but she will try in London so you know you've been there (to places in London) even before you have.

Love,
Mummy.

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gilagirl
Date: 2009-10-03 09:38
Subject: Two Days Too Long
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Mood:bored bored
Tags:love

Wei has been gone less than 2 hours and already my heart's missing him.

"Can't you tell them that you have a needy pregnant wife and she needs you?" came my meek counter-offer.

Ok, at least I tried.

So I sneaked Ratty to keep him company and keep a set of beady eyes on him.

Luckily, Ratty's position wasn't compromised last night.

By the time I put the car keys on the table, I had 2 sms waiting for me to read.

"Found him. Got him a window seat - will let him enjoy the view, introduce him to new friends over there too. Miss you."

"Oh no, have to declare Ratty to immigration. Wonder if they will quarantine him. Hope not. (He) Prefers to sleep on beds and not in cages. Will hide him."

"All is safe. He made it through. No quarantine needed...."

Well thank goodness we can give corny jokes a rest this weekend.

And no crazy channel surfing too.

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gilagirl
Date: 2009-10-01 23:08
Subject: No Sneeze Please
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Mood:groggy groggy
Tags:effects

Taken from babycentre.com

"Your Pregnancy: 15 weeks
How your life's changing: You've probably gained about 5 pounds by now (a little more or less is fine, too) and are well into the swing of your pregnancy, but you may still be surprised by an unexpected symptom now and then. If your nose is stuffed up, for instance, you can probably chalk it up to the combined effect of hormonal changes and increased blood flow to your mucous membranes. This condition is so common, there's even a name for it: "rhinitis of pregnancy." Some pregnant women also suffer nosebleeds as a result of increased blood volume and blood vessel expansion in the nose. "

And there I thought the smog was causing irritation to my nose....all that sneezing, nose-blowing...gah!

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gilagirl
Date: 2009-10-01 22:18
Subject: Mamarazzi: 15 weeks on
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Mood:sleepy sleepy
Tags:bud



The bump still does an occasional guest appearance especially after certain meals but still not big enough for seats to be given up on the train. Hmmmph!

I wonder when my innie will become an outie. Oh boy. 3rd Trimester?

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